ORGONE The Cosmic Life Energy Volume 10
It may well be that there is a widespread view in our culture that sexuality declines with age and that older people lose interest in it. That is, of course, a correct observation. But in my opinion, this is not primarily because the topic of "sexuality in old age" is taboo, but because a type of sexuality is spread unilaterally, which in the long run leads to the desolation of the emotional world and which people then experience as a burden. I would like to introduce you to a new, very practical view of sexuality: the energetic love.
It could be that what I am describing here will lead you to new insights and thus the experience of sexually fulfilled love, new chances that lie within the possibilities of your character possibilities. Whether and in what form you can use my thoughts is entirely up to you, to the character conditions you bring into your relationship and to the degree of social control that can influence your sexual life.
So it is time to talk openly and without shame about what, apart from arousal and biological drive, makes sexuality beautiful and attractive, what offers people long-term fulfilment and not just sensation. It is time to think about the function of sexual arousal, how sexuality can be experienced and shaped when arousal and its resolution in orgasm is no longer the only or the primary goal of sexuality.This is the great opportunity that older people have: to turn to a new, living form of sexuality because the old patterns have proven insufficient to offer long-term sexual fulfilment.